“I have been married for 7 years now and we were happy together until a year ago. My husband was so busy with his work that he would come home very late at night, sleep and then go to work early in the morning. And on weekends he rarely had time for me and our children. I was emotionally very sad and needed someone to talk to, share my problems, share happiness when anything good happened. Yes, my babies are there to keep me busy, but what about me? One day I ran into a very old flame in a supermarket while shopping for diapers. He knew I was a married woman and the same. We started talking and had so much in common. We talk everyday now and I know I am emotionally cheating on my husband. But the strange thing is that I don’t even feel guilty.
My husband is sweet and caring, but when it comes to sex, it doesn’t last more than 5 minutes. He doesn’t pretend either and we’ve had a lot of fights about it. Sexually I am a frustrated woman. He doesn’t even care that I’m disappointed, he’s only looking at his sex drive. A few weeks ago I ran into an old friend who has always been my 3am friend. He is single and very attractive man. I never paid much attention to his looks, but now he turns me on. I met him, we talked and I asked him if we could do it. He was taken aback for a moment but then gave in. We meet every 4-5 days just to have sex and he cares how I feel. He cares about my needs, what makes me shiver with pleasure and everything I have come to expect from my husband. Now I feel happy when I come home. I feel balanced now.
i kissed my best friend
I have been married for 3-4 years and it was a love marriage. We are happy together. My best friend is male and we have literally grown up together since we were 5 years old. Last year, we got drunk one weekend and my husband went to the bathroom. I don’t know what happened, but she impulsively kissed my best friend. He was shocked and so was I, but I was more surprised that it felt amazing! Like why hadn’t I done it earlier? He answered after a few more seconds and sparks flew! My husband came in and we acted like nothing had happened. But after a few more days, when I had gone out to eat with my friends, my maid of honor was also there. We decided never to deal with it again and continued on our way. This is a secret my husband will never know.
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